Youniverse

I am ultra-positive. I am well-educated, I make fun of "ME"- You have maybe seen Jonathan Edwards? I too am visited by the dead and I have touched many, many lives with the visions, messages given to me. It is completely unsettling and not yet comfortable for me. But, it is real and it does affect me. I hope this is a gift?

I love football, art, food. I have 4 children- one in college, 2 teens, and a five year old.I am somewhat burnt out as a mom, but I am fortunate to really like my kids and to enjoy them. They, however, are not my whole world, which may sound odd to you. Sorry, but I live my life and soon they will go off and live theirs. They respect me and I believe it is because I have a "me" for them to be proud of and admire.

I work full time and I write fiction part time. I am in love with our language and I have a vivid imagination.Watch out as you may become one of my next characters. Careful what you share!

I am not interested in control or in being controlled... Patience and tolerance are very important virtues in my world. This is a place that I frequent in order to release the demands of life and other's needs, wishes, commands. Thank you for allowing me my space and for your patience with my time.

I wish for friends who will spark me again. Friends with a brain, some life experience. Someone spiritual, evolved..not self-absorbed would be nice, too! Wit is a definite plus as well.

I love to drive.I drive a diesel stick, it is heavenly! I love roadtrips. I love random music, divebars. I also love pearls and filet mignon. I sip good wine, I tip back domestic beer.I like reading recipes and then tweaking them to fit my own tastes. I do not read the woman's magazines, I do not believe that peri-menopause exists, I still blow bubbles on gusty days.
I have wicker chairs on my porch and I sit in them- my life is not for show!!!